#1 Intimacy Expert Reveals the 20-Min Rule No One Ever Talks About
➜Ladies, this one’s gonna blow your mind (and maybe change your sex life forever). Chalene Johnson sits down with intimacy expert Susan Bratton — also known as the "Orgasm Queen" — for a conversation that’s equal parts educational, eye-opening, and just the right amount of spicy. They break down what’s really going on when sex starts to feel different in long-term relationships, and what most women have never been told about arousal, pleasure, and what their bodies truly need. If you’ve ever felt “off” or disconnected in the bedroom, this episode is for you.
✅ What You Will Learn
➜ The biggest difference between male and female arousal (and why it matters)
➜ What “lady boner” means (yes, it’s real) and why it’s the missing link in your pleasure
➜ How to have the “orgasm conversation” in a long-term relationship
➜ What a Yoni Massage is and why it can completely transform your experience – Timestamp – 15:00
➜ Why you may not feel lubricated — and how to fix it naturally
➜ The truth about climaxes during intimacy (and how to actually do it right)
➜ Tools, techniques, and oils that can boost intimacy and connection
➜ How to talk to your partner about trying something new…without it getting awkward
➜ The role of relaxation in sexual health and pleasure
➜ Why communication (and a sexy setup!) matters more than technique
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Finialy someone is taking about this!! Thank you, so much because I thought it was me
Yup! Mercy sex 12:47 is definitely what i’ve been doing since the past 7 years in 8 years with my man. I am actually learning right now and I feel so much relieved that I am normal and there’s actually solutions. I thought I had a problem for not being like him because I am still young (32). Once he realized I wasn’t lubricated as usual and it both made us feel uncomfortable. It made him feel like he had no effect on me and it made me feel like I was starting menopose at 32 but it wasn’t that at all. We didn’t talk about it after that and since a year it became VERY mechanical. Now, I have hope and I already feel an enormous pressure off of my shoulders. THANK YOU SO MUCH for this interview and i’m saying it very emotionally.
You are SO normal, and I’m so proud of you for leaning in and learning instead of blaming yourself. That pressure we carry is real but you are not broken. You’re just human. 🥰
Can I just say you have never looked better! Your hair color and style lately is on point…and your legs in the video on how you and your hubby take pics together were stunning! Happy Monday to you! 💕
Awww you are so sweet! Thank you so much!!
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Ready for part 2 😎👍
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Loved this! When will part 2 be released?
YAY! So glad you liked it! Part 2 will be released soon be sure you are subscribed so you get notification 😀
Wow! Great info! Where are all the women and likes? This could be a marriage saver.
Thank you so much!
Great Episode!!! I love how you just let her talk about all the things. I saw her on Diary of a CEO , but yours was SO MUCH BETTER! You asked great questions and did a fantastic job letting her answer all the questions she always gets.
WOW Thank you!! That made my day!!
Oh my goodness I learned so much from this great conversation! I wish my man and every womens man would watch, learn & do!!
Watch it with him!! Part 2 will all about him!!
Love it!
Brilliant!
Thank you!
Great convo! I was wondering what happened to the other post from this interview
So informative ❤
wow amazing
Very interesting and informative thank you.
This video needs to be shared far and wide. Thanks for the fabulous video! We can do all this even if the partner is clueless or not around. We can create our own relaxation and readiness ritual before bed, including wearing something pretty and soft. Give OURSELVES 20 minutes to and hour to totally relax with our without sex at the end. Bonus if hubby lands somewhere in the middle of all that.
Thank you so much!!!
Susan needs to be my partner 😂😂💯
The best thing I ever heard was at a pure romance party “men are like microwaves ding and their done women are like ovens they take time to heat up”